Nairobi

[GrownMan1]

Arrived in Kenya with jet lag from hell. That's to be expected. The guy in the airport wanted to carry my luggage. I only had a carry-on and a backpack. I told him I worked at an airport and I know how things work. I don't have any tip for him. Of course, he insists saying he can get my luggage through faster. I remind him again. I did not have any change. He loaded me up with another customer and the other customer bags had to be checked by customs. He walked my bags through.

Damn, I usually insist or say no, but I did have a few dollars on me. Custom tumble through the other guys bags for maybe about two or three minutes.

Gave my man $5 dollars and he told me it wasn't enough. He told me the average person gives him $20. I told him before I give someone $20 for pushing my role on; I will carry my luggage on my head.

He gave me back the five dollars. I turned my back to walk off and he tapped me on the shoulder to receive the five dollars back.

Gentlemen, coming from the west, please remember to bring an adapter converter for your electronics.

[GrownMan1]

The first 2 I met with; I am not sure which category they fit in (if any). One of them was upfront with me during our WhatsApp messaging that she is not interested in hookups (whatever that means). I*think I mentioned that in my pre-trip posting. First meet was lunch / drinks, then to room for sex. No $ benefits from me to her, she did not ask for anything and I offered nothing, there was a second time with her, similar scenario. We actually met a 3rd time, my last full day there, I had asked her to arrange a tour to the national park. The tour driver picked us up at my hotel, and I paid her portion.

Poor young lady. You broke her back on two occasions and she went home empty-handed. You didn't even have the courtesy to offer something and she showed you a good time. There you are in an expensive hotel looking for free sex.
Do you think she couldn't get sex from a Kenyan man. You wasn't even planning given her anything if she didnt ask,. Just use her and off to the next woman. It's guys like you that mess it up for guys looking for a nice non pro for a reciprocal encounter. She probably didn't have the heart or pride to ask you. She tried to let her action show and you showed her.

I had a friend who did the same thing in Dominican Republic. He didn't understand why the girl did not want to meet him again. What you did was not a flex and most of us on this site will agree. It seems like you did not do your research about Nairobi women. From the non-pro to the pro they all need money. I guess it makes more sense to you to overpay a pro It's guys like you to make them demand $100 when they first walk in the room.

[Mr Enternational]

Nowhere in Africa is going to be like Medellin or Sosua.

The only way they are alike are these small ass cars. Here in Kenya, when I get an Uber driver who has one of those small vans then I get his whatsapp. If you are coming here hoping for it to be like one of those places, then you might as well get the thought out of your head. Here in Mombasa we take salt water showers.

[Big Zozo Intl]

Nowhere in Africa is going to be like Medellin or Sosua.

[RamDavidson84]

I have spent time mongering all over Mexico, Colombia, Thailand, and Caribbean. Looking for a new destination. I was thinking of using Nairobi as a pit stop between USA and Thailand. After doing a little bit of research, Nairobi is looking like the best spot in Africa. If anyone could give their two cents comparing Nairobi to another spot like Medellin or Sosua, it would be appreciated.

[Cudjoe Man]

Trust me, there are attractive women out there for you. Again, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Always remember that! Who likes me and finds me attractive, might not like you and find you attractive, and vice versa. Since you ask about age and appearance: I am early sixties, about 6 ft 2 inches, not overweight, no gut yet, bald head, wears a beard which I often get compliments on by the ladies. Handsome or not? I leave that up to the ladies!

I appreciate this report, thank you.

Do you mind sharing a basic idea of your age / looks? I am a youngish looking middle aged dude with a little extra in the middle and cheeks, but not hideous I suppose. I wonder what sort of success I could have with these sorts of dating sites as a result. I am very intrigued by a trip to Kenya. The woman seem gorgeous. I am very tempted to pull the trigger on some flights. I don't know if money will be sufficient to offset my age in order to pull some very attractive, fit young ladies.

[Cudjoe Man]

My conversations with the girls before meeting up were all different. Your conversations can be based on the girl's postings and what you believe she is offering and what you want. A girl might like you and not like me, and vice versa. One might also deal with a girl depending on if he thinks she is a hooker / pro, semi pro, girl looking for friends with benefits, etc. I did not discuss food or dining with any of them before I got to Kenya. The two lunches were just convenient for our meetups, (and plus the hotel nonsense about no nonpaying guest in your room, helped with the diversion, LOL). Also, I was selective in picking the two that I dined with, based on their appearance / looks, type of conversations we were having, etc. My two lunch dates were very enjoyable, very romantic and set the tone for what followed. That's just me, your experience and likes might be totally different. For those two, it was pure luck that I was not disappointed with my expectations--continues nice conversations, they were nicely dressed. Man was I lucky!

Cudjoe Man, what are you telling these girls online before meeting with them? Are you letting them know what you want or are you just inviting them to eat and then take it from there?

[Cudjoe Man]

I enjoyed my Nairobi trip. Like many things in life, sometimes you have good luck on your side, sometimes not so good and other times just awful*luck. I just happen to like kenyacupid for what it offered me, a mix of pro girls disguised as looking for real relationships, girls looking for friends with benefits, a few freaks just in it for fun, real hookers, and others. Before the trip I communicated with over two dozen girls (via WhatsApp), a mixture of all the above, plus others whom I don't know how best to categorize them (assume you can). I also made a few contacts with girls from massagerepublic but did not meet any of them while there. Here is a brief summary of my experience.

The first 2 I met with; I am not sure which category they fit in (if any). One of them was upfront with me during our WhatsApp messaging that she is not interested in hookups (whatever that means). I*think I mentioned that in my pre-trip posting. First meet was lunch / drinks, then to room for sex. No $ benefits from me to her, she did not ask for anything and I offered nothing, there was a second time with her, similar scenario. We actually met a 3rd time, my last full day there, I had asked her to arrange a tour to the national park. The tour driver picked us up at my hotel, and I paid her portion. I thought she was very cute and sexy, and I really enjoyed her company on all 3 occasions. The 3rd time no sex as she did not even come to my room because I had someone else to service me that day (#4 below).

The 2nd girl is a mystery to me, she claims she is a freak, has intense foot fetishes, likes to be dominated in the bedroom, etc. She was a big go for me, not the best looking of the lot I had on my list to see but she was a big turn on, she had claimed she loves*dark chocolate, thus my bringing some to Kenya with me, gave them to her and a bottle of perfume I had bought, these were surprise gifts, she did not ask. We had two lunch / drinks*dates and both lead to great sex with quality time.

3rd was a 23 why / o, very small body, looked even younger, very shy, snuck her into my room after I paid the taxi for her ride to me, ordered room service food for her, after which we washed up and did the deed. For a small girl, she had some big tits, which I spent much time enjoying. When she was leaving, I told her I am giving her taxi fare for her return trip and for coming back for round two. I probably gave her about 5000 KES. She did not even count it, she just put it in her pocket and left. As I said, she is very shy, not communicate much. The following day she messaged asking when she was coming back. I told her I would let her know, and a day later came the story about rent money. No response from me.

The 4th girl was more transactional, very nice looking, 24-year-old. You can tell she is high maintenance, just by her fashion and by pics she sent me even before we met. Anyway, I met her by her taxi at the hotel, paid the fare and went to the room without being noticed by the administration / security. I got serviced. I had no KES but gave her $60. (maybe it was too much? She said thanks, and did not complain. We agreed for another meeting which did not happen. The sex was very good, no romance or GFE, just the sucking and fucking. This is one of the girls that asked me to bring her a "nice iPhone" which I ignored the message and did not bring her anything.

The 5th girl was basically the same scenario*as the 4th. I knew she was a pro. When I got her to the room she asked for $100 US. Ended up giving her the equivalent of $50. No fare, food, drinks. No romance, GFE, etc. She was nice and very sexy though. The sex was great.

My inbox is full of messages from girls that I had promised to meet. My regret about the trip is staying at Clarence House, I hated the hide and seek to bring the girls in. Luck was on my side as I did not have to pay any fee for any of the visits. The other regret is that I spent too much time with the first two girls, which deprived me of time to spend with different girls. I already want to return. I actually only gave away one of the bottles of perfume, the other two bottles I still have, and will take on my next trip for favorite*girls giving real good GFE.

[Mr Enternational]

Brad Pitt would not be in the movies if he were not extremely handsome. He would never look like a regular dude. Tupac never had problems finding chicks. I never had problems finding chicks when I was young, and he is much better looking than I.

Man you just lost all credibility. So you think Wilem Dafoe is extremely handsome? John Wayne? Forest Whitaker? Steve Buscemi? Because they are all in movies. And I am sure if it was between me, you, and one of them, then a chick would not be picking me or you.

You also think the Notorious BIG did not have problems getting chicks before the fame? He said Heartthrob never, Black and ugly as ever. He knew that he was not handsome and chicks were not swarming him for his looks. People that were close to Tupac have been interviewed and testified that chicks did not want him like that before. Any famous person can tell you that before the fame they were nobody.

Mike Jones wrote a song about it. Back then hoes didn't want me, now I'm hot, hoes all on me (Mike Jones!

Before I came up in the game, these hoes didn't show no love.

Biz Markie made a whole song about it called Vapors. He said one of the most handsome guys he knew could not get any play from women before the fame.

Hell there is a guy in the Mombasa thread right now that is surrounded by eligible women, yet has no clue to walk up and tell one Hello,. Some guys can be ugly as sin but have the gift of gab. Other guys can be the most handsome guy on the planet, yet have no idea how to talk to women.

EPMD said It wasn't me, the money, or the fortune, it was the "Fame!

With fame you do not need any of that. All you need to do is show up. People become famous for something other than beauty everyday and find that out. Hell, people even become rich and famous lose the rich, but women still flock because of the fame.

[GrownMan1]

What a nonsense advice: a big area without any bars but sport stadiums, institute of insects, bare land. Gosh. Ask your "useless informer" of name of bars or roads where to find the possible pick-ups. Anything else, just forget about it.

I definitely would take the opportunity of info from someone on this board over someone I've never met. I can't ask him those following questions because I had to block him. After giving me what seem to be sound information; he RFM a few days afterwards.

Never had a man who never met me asking me for money before through WhatsApp.

[Member #4813]

These guys are making a mountain out of nothing.

1. Different people like different types of people. There is no I look like this so nobody will like me. Brad Pitt would look like the regular dude next door if he was not in movies. Even Tupac said chicks were not giving him play like that before he was famous.

2. These chicks are mostly hookers.

3. Bring money.

Many people look for excuses to not do something.

I only agree on point 3.

Brad Pitt would not be in the movies if he were not extremely handsome. He would never look like a regular dude. Tupac never had problems finding chicks. I never had problems finding chicks when I was young, and he is much better looking than I. If he says that he did, he is building a personal myth. Of course, once he became famous, chicks were flocking to him. That is the rule, not the exception (I had the honor of hanging out one night with a well known rock band. During intermission, even I had a chick hanging onto my dick. Once I told her I was BFF with the drummer, she would have done me in the dressing room).

Most of the girls you can score with on tagged or badoo are not hookers. That is not to say that they won't have sex for money, but that is not their major means of employment. In Kenya in particular, I have only met two girls who could justifiably be called sex workers and (sorry, I have not kept an exact count) at least a half dozen who NEVER had sex for money in their lives but, given the offer, were happy to oblige. I have had a few who would have had sex without payment but as everyone knows, these types are the most expensive (they usually start needing help for a sick mother in the hospital or a request for an iPhone). I have nothing against hookers ("some of my best friends are hookers" ) but for those guys who really want non pros, there are plenty available online in Kenya.

All that being said, BRING MONEY!

[MwenByen]

I see it like this most of those women who post online are scammers and they’re 2 steps ahead of you guys. I rather more just come out and say looking for fun

Looking for advice on how best to not waste time with letting the girls you meet online know your intentions.

What should you say exactly?

[Edward5]

Looking for advice on how best to not waste time with letting the girls you meet online know your intentions.

What should you say exactly?

[Mr Enternational]

I think it is obvious that there a many beautiful Kenyan women under the age of 25 who are available. I do not have extensive experience in this country, but I have now made several trips and have not had any trouble finding beautiful girls who want to have sex with me. I am in my seventh decade of life, and I do not look like Brad Pitt but this does not seem to bother the ladies.

These guys are making a mountain out of nothing.

1. Different people like different types of people. There is no I look like this so nobody will like me. Brad Pitt would look like the regular dude next door if he was not in movies. Even Tupac said chicks were not giving him play like that before he was famous.

2. These chicks are mostly hookers.

3. Bring money.

Many people look for excuses to not do something.

[Member #4813]

///I would say you will have to work to get attractive, fit, young women over here.

True enough. It might take one hour online to get a beautiful woman willing to have sex with you. That is assuming you know how to type. I would bet you could get 20 girls satisfying whatever criteria matter to you in an hour on afrointroductions. My inbox was full of pretty women under the age of 25 on my first day without having to do a search or anything. All it required was my photograph.

I think it is obvious that there a many beautiful Kenyan women under the age of 25 who are available. I do not have extensive experience in this country, but I have now made several trips and have not had any trouble finding beautiful girls who want to have sex with me. I am in my seventh decade of life, and I do not look like Brad Pitt but this does not seem to bother the ladies.

Seriously, it could not be easier to find a non-pro girl willing to have fun in exchange for cash than in Kenya. But there are alternatives. If you read this site for a few minutes, you will discover that there are plenty of brothels, massage parlors and bars with freelance girls if you do not want to make the effort to cultivate a non-pro.